I don’t know if it’s just me. I don’t have any of my friends I can confide in. Who do I confide in? Apart from my mum, there are certain discussions I can’t have with my mum. I don’t have a sister. I’m the only girl, and my siblings are still young. I have this friend that I already felt I could confide in, though at first, when we were in school, I didn’t see her as someone that I could confide in because of how she talked about her other friends and her closest friends to me then. We weren’t really that close until recently. My husband’s friend, who is unmarried, said he likes her, and I advised her as a friend. Little did I know that my friend would tell him all that I told her about him and what my husband’s little sentiment about the whole issue was. Mind you, they are not even dating yet, just at the talking stage. About one or two weeks into their talking stage, they fought, and the guy came to us and said he was told that they advised her not to be with him and all. She even sent a message that day to him and said it again in the chat.
She doesn’t know anyone else together with him apart from us, so the guy already clicked that it was from here. I only gave her advice as a friend and sister, which I thought she was. I was very, very pained. Ever since then, I already adjusted back to me being quiet and seeing her the way I felt when we were in school. But I didn’t tell her the guy confronted us. I just played along. Before I go talk something wey she go go meet am again. Now, back to what I was saying, right now, I need someone to talk to, but I don’t have anyone. There’s one I call my sister, but she’s acting differently already, and I don’t really like sharing anything about me with her like that again. Now, I don’t have anyone to confide in. Why are we girls like this?
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