I trusted and loved my girlfriend so much but she disappointed me and ruined my trust when I found out she was in a silent relationship with different guys on WhatsApp. When we started dating she showed me her chats with her ex and I saw clearly that the guy was not good in communication and he was womanising a lot, so I made a promise to myself that I would be different and give her the best so she would know not all men are nonchalant. We gave ourselves distance for months and I kept myself untouched and I was 100 percent convinced she was not capable of cheating because she looked so innocent and calm. Fast forward to when we finally ended the distance and met again, that same day we had s€x. I found out that she was not as tight as before. I asked her if she cheated on me, she denied and lied but I didn’t want to argue because of the trust I had for her. Then one certain day while she was sleeping I noticed she had slept for long. I decided to go and check on her because I was in the sitting room before.
I went to the bedroom and I texted her on WhatsApp and I noticed the text ticked twice so I thought maybe she was awake. When I got there I found her sleeping peacefully. I am not a person that likes going through people’s phones because there is privacy, I just unlocked the phone to go through my chats with her because I enjoy reading them. I noticed she had locked chats on her WhatsApp and I was surprised because she looked innocent to set all that. I decided to click on the locked chats and the phone demanded face unlock but it couldn’t work, so I was asked to put the password and I was lucky that her phone password unlocked the chats. That was when I saw the whole thing. She was in a silent relationship with three men. I noticed she was having raw s€x with one of the guys because they were discussing pregnancy test results and the girl I call my girlfriend is always scared of having raw s€x with me, she never allowed me. I asked her but she didn’t give me a clear explanation about those guys.
She said one of them owned the three numbers with different names. She said she knew the guy long before she met me and the guy wanted to marry her but she was not ready. I don’t know if she is using me to cheat on the guy because the guy sends her money. My experience has made me question myself. If this girl that is too innocent can do this then nobody is different. I am scared to love again and I love her so much. I don’t even know how to end things with her but at the same time she might go back and secretly write the guy again.
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