A friend introduced me to a new business, and along the line, I met a guy there, and we started dating. So, the job is like a contract job. It’s like a side hustle to me. Though the money wasn’t much and wasn’t what I was expecting, I got someone that was doing the job for me, and we shared the income that comes (me and my staff). After a while, I got tired because the money wasn’t giving me what I was expecting. My bf told me to be patient, that more will come with the festive period. Then something happened along the line, and the company stopped me from working (don’t want to go into the details too much). I then asked my bf to start working with my staff since I wasn’t so interested in the money. He refused and told me he would find a way for me to continue working. I wasn’t really interested, so I told him, let’s wait for the company to call me back instead of going through another way (bear in mind, the money wasn’t so important to me).
Can you people believe that my staff went behind my back and was working with my bf, and none of them mentioned it to me, including my bf? I found out by mistake. My anger was that my bf could do something like that and not tell me, even the stupid staff that I was always dashing money. I was so hurt and disappointed in my bf. I told him that I was scared of him and couldn’t trust him, and he could plan my kidnapping in the future. Bear in mind, I earn way more than him, like 5 times more, which was the reason I even wanted him to be working with my staff so he could see extra money since the money was small for me. He has apologized, even went ahead to send me money to get something I wanted. I have forgiven him, but don’t know why my heart is still a bit heavy, and I get irritated. I’ve blocked the staff everywhere. (Bear in mind, no one knows me and my bf are dating.) We are keeping it very low-key for now because of personal reasons (I suggested this). What do I do? Is this ground for breakup?
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