Hello everyone. Please don’t judge me, I just really need genuine advice right now. Last year, my boyfriend and I had serious issues and weren’t talking for months. During that period, I met a man who was open about being married. At first, I told myself it would just be something casual, nothing serious, maybe just companionship and financial support. But as time went on, I found myself getting emotionally attached. We started having $£x, and even though he gave me little gifts and money, I kept feeling like I was worth more, not just financially but emotionally too. Eventually, we stopped talking for a while when he travelled abroad, but when he came back, he reached out again and I felt this crazy joy I couldn’t explain. That’s when I realised I was falling in love with him. This year, he even made things “official” between us, but deep down I still knew it could never truly work. I kept reminding myself that I was in it for money, yet my heart got involved. Now, he gives me less attention and I feel like he’s slowly pulling away.
Recently, I asked him for some financial help and ever since then he’s been acting distant, giving excuses like “I haven’t gotten all the money yet” or “Let’s talk after I sort that out”. He barely calls or checks on me anymore, and right now I don’t even feel bad just because of the money. I feel bad because it seems like he doesn’t care at all anymore. I feel used, emotionally drained, and honestly heartbroken. I know what I’m doing is wrong, I know falling for a married man isn’t right, but my feelings are real and I just want to learn how to control them and move on. At the same time, I still really need that money from him. Part of me wants to block him and delete his number, but another part keeps saying “just wait till you get the money first”. Please, I need sincere advice. How do I heal from this, manage my emotions, and also handle this money situation without losing myself completely?
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