So, I met this guy in December last year at a wedding. He approached me, collected my number, and we hit it off. Only for this guy to tell me he has a girlfriend, but she’s based in the U.S. I thought he was joking because he jokes a lot. It dawned on me when she came around this year. I told him off and told him to go and face his girlfriend. Note: he calls her his girlfriend today and his wife tomorrow, stating that he forgot he was married. Countless times, he has said he was single whenever we were having a conversation. I get that he sees her in a marital way or something. Although he mentioned he won’t be relocating, I don’t trust him. He insisted on being friends, which I didn’t want. At that time, he was the only person I was talking to, so I had grown fond of him. So, we remained friends. We talk almost every day, gist, and stuff. We are both super attracted to each other, but I know he just wants to sleep with me and probably use me to fill the void when his girl isn’t around.
I don’t want that. He can’t give me commitment, so I have decided to stop entertaining him, but he keeps calling and texting, offering an open relationship and saying that if marriage happens, it happens. In my head, I’m wondering, “Do I look that desperate?” But I really like him, and I do not want to destroy someone’s relationship. I should have backed out when I could and was advised to. Now, I find myself thinking about him and missing him every day because I haven’t been picking up his calls for two days now. What do I do? I haven’t blocked or unblocked him.
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