So, my man and I have been dating for a while now, but we are currently staying together since we left Nigeria. Back in Nigeria, everything was so much better and easier than here in the UK. I feel like my man is now expecting me to be a different person. Even before we started dating, I was staying alone back in Nigeria, and so was he. We both were living our lives and had different perspectives on things and understood ourselves well. When we started dating, we talked about things we liked and disliked, and we were cool with it. I told him I don’t like to wash clothes and plates. Yes, I h8te to wash clothes and plates. I stayed alone, so I had a laundry man wash my clothes, and I barely cooked in my house. Even if I cooked, I immediately cleaned after myself and did the dishes immediately so I wouldn’t have to come back to them later.
My man was aware of this and he was cool with it. When we started dating, I noticed that he was the messy type; he doesn’t like to clean after himself after cooking. Me, being that I hate to see dirt around me, told him I don’t like it, especially overnight dirty dishes. I helped him clean, though. Then he decided to get a cleaner because of that. Even though we weren’t staying together at that point, I always went home to a clean house. He does his laundry as he owns a machine, so everything was perfect. But everything changed when we moved to the UK. He’s now expecting so much from me, even though we both work. He’s now expecting me to do the overnight dishes, knowing fully well that I hate it so much. That’s why I always clean after myself, but he doesn’t, which is so annoying. I’ve spoken to him about it, but nothing has changed. At this point, I don’t know what to do as I am afraid it might get worse.
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