It happens that I met my new girlfriend about a month ago and she’s been sweet and supportive. I love her so much, and I know she does too. Although before we started dating, I noticed she talked to a lot of guys because she’s a very beautiful girl. But I didn’t talk about it because I felt as we got along I’d let her know I didn’t like it, which I did and saw some little changes. So, fast forward to last week, she told me she was traveling to Osun State because her sister just gave birth on Wednesday. She would be going on Saturday because of preparation and stuff, which I agreed to. But deep down, I’m not cool with it, but I had to let her do her thing. So Saturday came, she went to the park from my place, and we were cool and all. This is where the issue started. My state to Osun State is about a 2-hour journey at most because of the Salah movement.
Their movement started around 5 pm in the evening, and we were in communication throughout. I was even telling her how much I miss her, and she was saying the same. So when it was a few minutes to 7, I texted her to ask if she was close to her destination because I believed she should be in Osun State. She said they were close to Osun State but not there yet, so I said fine, I want to get busy, text me when you get to your destination. I dropped my phone. When it was almost 8 and I didn’t get her message, I texted her, and she was offline. I called her, it was switched off, so I started getting worried. There was no other way I could reach her since she hasn’t introduced me to any of her family members. I kept messaging and calling until 10:30 when her call woke me up. Her story was that when they got to Osun State, there was no network at all because it was raining heavily,
and she was at her sister’s place already. I said okay, so where is everybody because that place was so silent? She said her sister is still in the hospital yet to be discharged. I said okay, so I asked why she was not in the hospital with them. She said her brother came to pick her up from the park, so they came home first. When I heard that, I started laughing because I already knew she was lying. She told me she was home already before she left, and their mom was there too. Not long after, a guy came into the room she was in while on a call with me and spoke to her. She responded, “Motigbo e” (“I’ve heard you”) with no respect in the Yoruba language. I didn’t say anything, so I dropped the call. She texted me immediately asking what was wrong, and I asked her why she was lying. Then she started acting innocent, asking what I was talking about. I kept asking her where she is.
She said she was in her sister’s house. I asked her who was there with her. She said she was alone. I got angrier and told her not to act smart with me, that I knew she was in a man’s house. Next, she started gaslighting me, saying she knew I wasn’t serious and that I was going to break up with her. I just wanted to have my way and had found the right excuse. I switched off my phone and went to bed. The next day, Sunday, and the following day, Monday, we didn’t text each other. Then on Tuesday evening, which I suspected she just gotten to her sister’s place originally, she texted me and tried to explain that she was not lying. She even started snapping at her mom, the baby, and her sister to prove she was really with them. I laughed and asked her if she could take a picture in the same room she was in the day she arrived in Osun State right now (because I still have the video she sent to me from that room that day) or video call me in the room, then I would believe her.
Her response was that she would rather let go of the relationship than prove to me she was not lying. I said fine if that’s her choice, then we stopped talking since then. So, I want to know if I’m overthinking or overreacting. Should I text her back or should I just let her go for good? To be honest, I miss this girl and I still love her so much. It is driving me crazy. I just want to hear from my Rantandtalkz fam on what to do.
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