I got married really early. My husband is a doctor and I’m a lawyer. Before marriage, I had not known any man; I lived a very good girl life (good girl no dey pay oo; this one no be meme). I graduated very early and got married to my husband. Since I got married, I haven’t been happy. From one quarrel to another, my husband comes back home very late and gets angry at the slightest thing possible, even things that a normal human wouldn’t get angry about, and is always shouting at me like I’m his kid or his junior sister. I’ve cried so much since I got married; I’m exhausted from crying. I’m a very faithful person, down to the fact that I don’t even have friends. We have three kids. I got a job at a good firm, but it didn’t last long.
My husband said we should relocate. After so much back and forth, we recently relocated to another city, and I haven’t gotten a good job as there aren’t many firms here. In fact, my husband doesn’t want me to work from his actions, and I don’t want to be a housewife. I’m getting depressed daily. My husband sees himself as always being right. He never accepts his wrongs, and neither does he apologize. He’d rather chew an iron sponge with stone than apologize. I love my husband, but I’m tired. I don’t know what to do. This isn’t what I envisioned about marriage because I grew up with loving parents.
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