The relationships I’ve been in, I always thought would lead to marriage, and I’d never thought of giving up on people just like that, not even when they cheat. I’d stupidly still try to make things work, but they’d be bent on leaving, even though they always come back begging months later, which I never accept. Even in friendships, I’ve treated girls like my sisters, and the way they switch up on me is always scary. I became very reserved after all that betrayal because if so many people switch up on you like that, you’d start to think maybe there’s something wrong with you. So I didn’t want to have to go through all that again till I met this guy. He was acting so sweet and sympathetic. I told him everything I went through in my past relationship and friendship. This guy was worse, cheated on me from the start till the very end, always accused me of cheating,
and wanted me to do everything for him while he did nothing for me, not even emotional support. When he was probably tired of the relationship, then he got himself a new girlfriend while I was there thinking I was still in a relationship. He didn’t stop there; he was flaunting the girl in my face. I found out online that my relationship was over. I confronted him, and I told him to own up to it and break up with me like a human being, and he insulted me. I can’t even say the words he said to be here because Omo. It’s not my first time being cheated on, but how cruel can you be to do that to someone? He had to make sure he killed the last bit of joy I had left, and he went around untouched and happy while he destroyed someone. At this point, I accepted that maybe I was meant to be alone because of the way people treat me, you’d think I killed their mom or something.
I’m not perfect, but I know I didn’t do anything to deserve all that, and they confirmed it too because they always come back to beg me after the damage has been done. One even had their mom call me to settle, but I can never let people like that back into my life. I have one good friend who’s literally my day 1, and I feel so bad now because I isolate myself, and barely keep in touch with her, and I feel bad most times, but I can’t help it. I just want to focus on myself and my business. I’ve even accepted the fact that I might never get married, and I’d be fine. Don’t tell me to love myself, I already do, and I have a business that’s thriving. This generation is messed up, and karma doesn’t exist.
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