I’m losing my mind because I really like my neighbor. I wasn’t attracted to him from the beginning. I live alone, which was how he entered my life. He came to meet me when I was outside one day, and since then, we started talking. If he‘d asked me out that day, we would never become friends. We became very close. He informed me from the beginning that he had a girlfriend and side chicks, which I didn’t care about because I didn’t like him then. I have a lot of rules, and I’m a very principled person. This guy womanizes, drinks, earns illegally, and plays bet, which is a total turn-off for me. He’s not someone I can ever be with, but I couldn’t guard my heart, and I fell in love with him, despite knowing everything about him. I couldn’t help but start liking him. We’re always together; he was very sweet and kind to me.
It got to some point I started thinking he used jazz on me because I don’t fall in love easily, not even with someone in a relationship. When I’m sick, he goes all out for me and always makes sure I’m okay. Boom, one thing led to another, and we started having sex. I have never had sex with someone I’m not in a relationship with or someone who has a girlfriend. I regretted it so much. I tried so hard to ignore him and let him go, but I couldn’t. Anytime I set my eyes on him, I always succumb. Please don’t insult me; I have never been in this kind of situation. I don’t know what to do. After we had sex, the reality now dawned on me! This guy will bring different girls to his house, and they will even spend days or weeks with him without caring about my feelings. Before we had sex, he never brought any of them home and always spent time with me.
I know how wrong it is to fall in love with someone in a relationship, but I couldn’t help but fall in love with him. We are always together; he’s always at my door. Please, I need advice on how to heal. I need advice on how to get over him. I know he is using me. This guy will still have the nerve to come back to me after his girls are gone. It was after we had sex I realized that he never really cared about me. He knows how to play his game so well that I totally forgot he was a womanizer. It’s not even about money because I have never collected a dime from him. Even after everything, I still like him. Please, I need help on how to get over my feelings for someone like that.
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