I saw a post where someone advised that the best way to move on from a relationship is after you have been fully embarrassed in a way that no one will tell you to leave the relationship. I’m someone who always leaves a relationship before it even gets to the embarrassment stage. Even in my past relationships, I was always the one to leave, and something about me is when I leave, I don’t really let it tear me down; I’ll say I have a solid heart for breakups. Now, I met a guy last year and we dated for a few months. The first two months, I noticed some red flags and realized I might not be able to cope, so I broke up. A few weeks later, he came back and apologized, and I accepted him back after talking to him about what I noticed, and he agreed to change. We continued the relationship, and I noticed he hadn’t changed. We kept having issues until he did the one thing that made me feel this time I’m done.
I broke up again, and this time the guy didn’t just let the breakup go like that. He insulted me and told me how I didn’t deserve anything he did for me, how he regretted knowing me, and a lot of hurtful things. He insulted me, my friends, family; in my life, no one has insulted me this way. I couldn’t even insult him back; I just kept mute and deleted all our pictures and videos. When he saw how I didn’t insult him back, he came back to apologize, but I just said okay and moved on. Now, every morning I wake up and I hear the insults ringing in my head; I don’t even know how to feel. I feel less of myself. Anyway, just want to advise that the red flags you notice in any guy/girl that you ignore will be the same reasons you guys will end up breaking up. It might just take a while, but it’ll happen. This breakup hurts not because of love but because of the insults, especially coming from someone you thought loved you.
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