I was in a toxic relationship with a guy in his late thirties. He isn’t married but he has a kid, which he told me about before, and I didn’t mind it. Things took another turn when he suggested I move in after 2 years of dating since we were planning our introduction and I had to because my rent fee was almost due. This man hits me at any slight turn; imagine dating someone for 2 years plus and he has never gotten angry to the extent of raising his hands on me once. When it happened, his family begged and told me he was in a bad mood, I should forgive and all of him, and since it had never happened before, I should let go. He would bring in ladies to the house, call them his cousin, niece, and all that. They would beg, and I would forgive, but one of the girls saw all these and felt the guy was loaded, so she decided to try to snatch him.
I have been praying that God should give me a way out because I was tired, and from size 12, I already went to 6 within a year. He is also manipulative because he has a way of changing narratives, and at the end of the day, I would feel maybe it’s something I’m not doing right. This girl was legit posting him on social media, calling me out for staying with a man who doesn’t love me and all. I don’t know what made the girl think she was special, but a friend of mine just dropped a gist in my DMs now, saying the girl is seeing hell! According to what she heard, at one point, the girl was living in my shadow because my ex was always comparing and all. As matters even reached like this, he would send the lady to the visitor room, carry a woman to his personal bedroom, and have intercourse.
The girl found out that the guy in question was engaging in relationships with some of her friends on the down-low. I guess karma is real after all because the girl showed me hell. Is it the name-calling or the embarrassment? Well, I am still single as it is, but I have never been happier, and I am on my journey into cybersecurity. Hopefully, I pray everything works out for me in the end. Unknowingly, she gave me my escape, but as for her, I’m not sure there is an escape for her. A bit sad for her though, because the guy is a narcissist. I won’t say I’m perfect, but then when I love, I love very deeply, and I also spend too.
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