I met this guy online almost a year ago. Things have been going well between us, and we started dating. Along the line, he said he wished to marry me. I prayed about it, and they said we’re compatible, but there’s distance between us, so it’s a long-distance relationship, and we both believe it can work out. After some months, I couldn’t reach him; I was so worried, not knowing he got k!dnapped. They collected money from him, so since then, he has been staying with his sister. I do assist him because he went broke, even though we haven’t gotten to see each other; we always communicate well, and he always reassures me. After some weeks, he’s doing good again and rents a new apartment. So we decided to see and link up in Lagos on my mum’s death anniversary so I wouldn’t feel lonely, and it worked out. He came down to my town, so we went to Lagos together. I was so happy to see him. Even though we do have issues, each day I spend with him has been the best day of my life so far since I lost my parents.
But I get to know with the way things have been between us; he’s a cheater. I was so confused because I saw a lot of things on his phone, but I still forgave him, thinking he would change because he promised to. He cried when he was going back to his place, not knowing the real him would show. So now it’s been more than a month since he went back, and everything about him has changed: the communication, his caring. Sometimes if I called him, he wouldn’t pick up; instead, he would later give me an excuse. And now I found out I am pregnant, and he said I should leave it, that he wants me and the baby. We even fixed a date I’m coming to his side, but he’s not talking about it again. I am not really feeling him again; he’s not turning up. Please, I need your advice. Should I abort the pregnancy and move on, or should I keep the baby?
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