Around February, I met this guy while coming back from work. To be honest, I’m not someone that says no when you ask for my number; I go give you sharp sharp. After we text, and I see that you don’t have head or tail, I’ll just block you. So, I gave this guy my number. The first day we started talking, he called several times, so I told him to stop calling me; he got pissed and stopped. I forgot about him because I didn’t really rate him. Randomly, he texted one day, and asked where I was. I told him I was working, and he asked if he could pick me up from work. He was so nice to me that day, Ehn. In my head, I’m already like, “he’s not that bad, nau.” He dropped me at home. Next time, he asked me out on a movie date (later got to find out that he asks other girls too). I agreed to go with him; the date went nice. We kissed and made out in his car. He asked me out that day, and I said if all these things he’s doing is to sleep with me, that it won’t work.
He just stopped talking about it. So, we were supposed to meet up the next day, and I came late. He got pissed, I tried apologizing. He didn’t answer me. Next thing, we were driving to his place. I’m like, “Ahn Ahn. This isn’t where we’re supposed to stay, nau.” I sha kept quiet so he doesn’t get more pissed. Na so we reach house, ooo. We made out, and he tried having $€x with me. I said no. And then he stopped for a while, then, na told me he won’t put it in. Leemaoo, he sha had sex with me sha. I cried, then he comforted me, and that night, he asked me out again, and I said yes. After that day, he ghosted me for 3 days. I went to his place to confront him about it and returnes the shirt he gave me. Baba explained ooo, with proof about why he ghosted me. Then ghosted me again the next day. And I told 2 of my friends because I was running mad. They told me to ignore him, act like he’s not important, but omooo, that is not me.
He’s important!!! I actually really did like him very much. I already started planning a bunch of things I wanted to get for him for his birthday. I even paid for a cake ahead of when we turn 1 month. I’m not a stressful person. I’m very submissive. I no get problem. I just want somebody to actually treat me right. And my friends knew. So after I tried to listen to them and not talk to him anymore. He called one day, and I told him I didn’t want to have anything to do with him anymore. Then I told him he has an infection, and he started denying it. Maybe signs haven’t started showing on him, but my body is very sensitive. If someone that is sweating touches me like this, I’ll have a bad skin reaction. I’m not even a dirty person, and it was after we had sex I started having discharges. So sha I told him, and instead of him to talk about why I didn’t want to have anything to do with him again, his main focus was on why I said he has infection. In my mind, I already knew from the day that he ghosted me that he was a bad person and he’s doing this thing to a bunch of other girls.
So I decided to be nice to him and see if I was overthinking it. You guysssss I checked his phone!!! And I wasn’t disappointed. I saw orishirishi bunch of girls begging him to reply to their texts and calls. Ahnnnn omooo, the werey has 2 WhatsApps. He’s sleeping with h00kup girls. Pricing the h00kup girl actually. The way he even saved people’s names. Ahn Omo mehnnnnn. I told him I checked his phone, and he said I didn’t see anything, that if I did, I’d have been crying. I already accepted it, why I go cry?? I’m not even that kind of person, I already knew there was always going to be another girl. Just respect me enough to not allow me see it. Sha sha, that night we talked, we were good for like, umm, 4 days. He promised he’d never ghost me again. I told him we both know he was lying, then he laughed. I told him something I’ve never really told people. He told me, “We’d get through it together.”
After that day, he ghosted me. We didn’t talk for 9 days. Then I texted him and told him how I couldn’t take this again, then I blocked him everywhere. Butttt, there’s one problem. I’m treating the infection, and it’s getting better. Cost me a lot of money sha. But I think I’m pregnant. My period is missing. I don’t want to be pregnant for him at all. I’ll feel so embarrassed. He can’t be a father to my first child, that’s like a big disgrace. I’ll go for a pelvic scan next week once I’m paid, ’cause I texted him to help with it, but he didn’t reply. I even called, no response. Honestly, I want to wish him bad, but that’s not who I am. I hope he genuinely gets to learn how to love someone properly. And I hope I genuinely get over him, and I’m not pregnant.
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