Is it possible for a girl not to like sex? I’ve been dating this babe for like a year now. Although everything is good, the sex part is not good at all. I’m in a long-distance relationship with my babe, and we barely see each other, maybe twice a month or once. But whenever we see each other and have fun, she only allows me to go one round, and I’m the type of guy that likes sex. When we started dating, she told me she doesn’t like sex, blah, blah, blah, and I told her I’ll adapt because I was in love with this girl before we started dating. But now, I don’t think I can adapt, and I’ve been having these urge to cheat, but I don’t want to cheat on her. I love her so much, but at the same time, I want to be satisfied. I know we barely see each other, but at least whenever we see each other, she should allow me to go two to three rounds, so I’ll be satisfied. But no, she won’t allow me, except for one round, and during this one round, I only last five minutes, then I’ll cum. Most of the time, I’ll take mummy so I won’t cum fast during the first round, but still, I won’t last five minutes.
I’ve sat her down and talked to her about this, but she still tells me she doesn’t like sex and she’s just doing this for me to satisfy me. But I’m not satisfied. Only for her to tell me there’s nothing she can do about it. And this is the girl I’m ready to settle down with. Since we’ve started dating, I’ve never for once said no to any of her needs, be it wig, cloth, her school bills, house rent, and so many bills, which is not a problem to me, although I’m still struggling too but I can afford it. Or her monthly allowance, which is N10k. I won’t lie, but during the week, she always asks for more for her needs. I love this girl, and she loves me too. Well, she always tells me that, but why won’t she like sex? So now I’m thinking of stopping her allowance, stop sending her money for three months to know maybe she really loves me or is she just pretending because of the benefits and all I want is just for her to satisfy me whenever we see each other. Is that too much to ask? Please, am I doing the right thing? I’m not ready to leave her, and I told her from the start that I’ll adapt to it.
But no, I don’t think I can, and I don’t want to have this impression that maybe someone else is with her. No, I don’t want to think about it. And lastly, whenever we’re together, and I want to cuddle, she always pushes me away. I’m a clingy guy. She doesn’t allow me to touch or cuddle her much, especially after the one round sex. Sometimes I just think about all these things. Is there any way I can make this work for us? ‘Cause I don’t want to leave her. She’s everything to me, and I’ve been having these sexual fantasies lately that I want to try with her. But how can I make it come true when she doesn’t even allow me to do more than one round? I’m sorry it’s long, guys. I just want to pour out my mind here anonymously because I don’t want to tell my friends so they won’t say bad things about her. Thanks, God bless you all.
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