My boyfriend and I of almost 3 years got into an argument. I understand that he felt hurt because of something I did, and I apologized to him. No, I didn’t cheat. Believe it or not, food caused the whole issue. He wanted to eat, and I begged to join him. At first, he refused, but later he said I could join him. Then I jokingly asked him to stand up from his seat and let me sit down and eat, and he dumped the food and said I must eat it all. Because of how he reacted, I felt shocked, and I just decided to avoid him before he exploded on me again. But that just made things worse because he started threatening me, saying that if I didn’t eat the food, I’d see what he’d do to me. I didn’t eat it. And he started talking about how he was already mad the food he bought wasn’t good enough and my joke pushed him over the edge. Crazy enough, I apologized, and then he said I was trying to use my apology to shut him up because I didn’t want to take responsibility for my actions.
Even when I tried explaining things from my point of view for him to see that I was just joking with him, he told me to shut up. Then he proceeded to tell me to get out, and then repeatedly asked me to get the fuck out before walking out on me. I felt hurt by what he did and called him selfish because I didn’t mind sharing my food with him all day, any day. But when I ask him to share his with me, there’s always an excuse, and I call him selfish because of it. I haven’t uttered a single word about the issue since it happened. I keep telling him he’s changing for the worse in our relationship and that he’s getting harder to deal with. But for some reason, anytime I bring it up due to something he did, he’ll start screaming about how everything is always his fault. Frankly, I’m tired. Should we just break up because nothing is changing? I’ll be in the comments, and I know he will be there too.
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