There’s this girl I met last year on IG; she’s 20, and I’m 27. I fell in love with her beautiful looks at first, and after some time, we happened to be friends. We realized that we both come from the same hometown, which made me love her more. She’s brilliant, smart, and has a good sense of humor. We communicate once in a while because she told me she has a boyfriend. She acts friendly towards me, but I pull back sometimes because I don’t want to spoil the friendship I’m about to build with her. I have this strong feeling that she’s my wife, and I’ve never felt that way for a woman before in my entire life. But for her case, I’m ready to risk it all. I’ve had several dreams where she left her boyfriend to be with me, but I know my imagination is just playing tricks on me. The other reason I haven’t made a move on her is that I’m not financially stable right now.
I’m focusing on making money and fixing myself. She’s a nurse, and I really like to invest in her and also build us a private hospital. The crazy part is that she initiated a meet-up, and I haven’t talked about it since then. I know she doesn’t want to talk about it so it doesn’t seem like she’s on the fast lane. Lowkey, I’m praying for her boyfriend to break up with her so that I can have my chance with her. I don’t even talk to her often; I only comment on her pictures on WhatsApp, but there’s no day I don’t think of her. I just don’t want to rush things; I want a situation whereby when I make a move, it won’t be just words but actions. Do y’all think I’m doing the right thing?