There’s this guy I met recently. I’m the kind of person that easily gets attached to people. We talk frequently. I got attached to him ’cause the guy is loving; he knows how to cheer me up when I’m down. He’s intelligent. I ended up falling in love. I didn’t know how to keep my feelings to myself, so I went ahead to tell him how I felt just to avoid being in a situationship. He told me how he felt, that he’s not ready for a relationship, he won’t be committed even if. The problem is, I’m not also ready for a relationship. I had to just accept it like that. We concluded staying as friends and seeing where it leads us. We had sex before he traveled (still coming back though). Now we don’t talk like before. He takes time to reply to my messages. I don’t know whether I’m the one overthinking everything, that it was just the sex he wanted, or he’s just busy over there. Please, I need advice. Is there a way to unlove or stop loving him? Because I’m trying my best not to show how much I love him. And is it cool if we stay as friends?
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