I just started dating my boyfriend for over 7 months now. We never had issues. He came up with a sudden breakup without any good reason. Even on that day, he broke up with me, I was begging him we could do this together, that he shouldn’t leave me just like that. I cried out my eyes that I almost died. It all started when he took me to his church. We were friends before we started dating then, so his spiritual father called us out. We both came out, and he said God said this is my husband, that God said we should marry and all of that, and the relationship started coming in good. He was so good to me to the extent I told myself I would never cheat on this guy. Imagine your boyfriend crying before your very eyes, that was how I knew this was deep. It was all going well, he started gifting me money and lots more. And then I brought a friend into the picture, and her name is Mercy.
I told this girl all my man was doing for me, all the gifts and lots more, as per she is my friend. Something led to something, I brought her to my boyfriend’s house so whenever I’m bored I’ll invite her over, she will come, and we both will chill together in my man’s house. On my uncle’s burial day, she exchanged numbers with my boyfriend without my consent. Back to our breakup, my boyfriend’s Pastor gave us a prophetic message saying that he saw a separation between me and my boyfriend, that his aunt wanted to kill me, and put it in his head that he used me for r! rituals. I was confused, this was the same Pastor who said God said we are meant to be together. I said ok, we got home from church, I was now seeing some changes in my boyfriend’s face, and I was like babe what’s the problem talk to me. He said nothing, I was like, ‘babes stop na, talk to me’, he said nothing.
Back to our breakup after the service that day, that same day, he said it was over that relationship is not a do-or-die affair, that he still loves me but he doesn’t want anything to happen to me in the future, that I should move on. I was like babe is it because of what your Pastor said about your aunt? I was begging him and begging him that he shouldn’t do this to me, that I need him now. He refused, and I started crying, I cried and cried, and my eyes got swollen for days. I rushed down to my friend Mercy, I said my boyfriend had broken up with me for no reason. I literally explained everything to her, she was so sorry about it, she was messaging me that I should cheer up and move on and that God would give me someone better.
To cut the long story short, I got a call that my friend had been at my boyfriend’s house for days, I took my phone and I called her, did you go to my boyfriend’s house? She said no that she went to deliver boxers for someone. I said ok. I called her and asked her again, did you sleep with my boyfriend? She said how that she doesn’t understand. I was now telling her so she went to my back to sleep with my boyfriend that God would judge her. I cried yesterday. Please, who should I believe caused I and my boyfriend’s breakup? Is it the Pastor or the aunty or my friend? Truly, my friend was the reason for our breakup.
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