This man and I have been dating since last year, February. He’s intentional about marrying me, but my issue is that he isn’t learned. He’s divorced too, his ex-wife is remarried now, and they have no kids, so it’s fine with me. Here’s the thing: he barely pampers nor gives me attention. He’s not exactly rich, but he’s doing well, but it’s not all about the money for me. I want my man to share things with me, I want to be in his business and him in mine. I love this man, and I’ve tried communicating with him. I’ve told him the kind of relationship/marriage that I fancy. I’ve promised to love him and do everything to make our relationship/marriage work, but to me, he’s just not putting in the work.
He keeps saying he’ll try to do better, but I don’t see it, and I’m tired. Recently, he made a three-day trip for a job, and I found out from his phone that he hooked up with an ex he used to date way after he divorced. I confronted him about it, and he said I should not go through his phone just like he doesn’t go through mine. He wasn’t even remorseful, instead, he changed his password. I’ve promised myself that there’s no way I’ll be married and unhappy, I’d rather die single. Tried breaking the relationship off, but he kept begging and saying he’d die if I left him. Honestly, I’m emotionally drained, and I don’t know what to do. Please family members, what should I do?
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