I was doing FWB with a guy but he was in Abuja. He invited me to Abuja or Lagos. We’ve been on this for 2 years and he asked me out for us to take it serious on another level. I accepted because he’s very nice to me. Little did I know that this man is married with a child. When I found out, this man denied everything and was even crying, asking me if I was the one that married him. I got a boyfriend who is 35 years old. He’s an old taker, so money no dey. He even wants to start a business because I persuaded him to do so if he wants a family with me, because he’s saying he wants to marry me. I can’t do that because he’s broke and he doesn’t want to work. Back to the FWB man, after back and forth he begged me to take him as my side n•gga at least. He’s saying he wants to marry me because I told him that I have a boyfriend who wants to marry me, so I can’t be with him anymore. The problem now is that I don’t want to be a second wife. I told him that.
He’s like he’ll buy me a different house, I don’t need to live with him and his wife, or he’ll relocate me to Accra, but honestly I can’t. Even that my old taker boyfriend too, I’ve told him several times that I want to end the relationship, but he’ll always call me to beg me and cry. Even if I block his number, he’ll use different numbers to call me. I no wan suffer, abeg. He doesn’t even give me money or anything, just there because of love, but it’s 2 years and he’s still at the same spot. Omo, I no wan suffer. He doesn’t even have a house, he lives in his mum’s house with his elder sister. Is that how I’ll end up? I’m confused, please what should I do.
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