Rantz family, please I want you guys to advise me on this. I have a 7 years relationship, we have been together for 7 years. We were not living together before. Back then she lived in Lagos while I was in another state, so I planned to move from where I was to another state and I requested for her to come and live with me based on the love I have for her and for us to know each other better, even though she caught me cheating and I begged her and she forgave me. She is nice and kind but there is this one behaviour she has, she doesn’t listen to me. She doesn’t want to listen to correction and she is very stubborn. She doesn’t want to break up but she doesn’t want to change. Every little conversation seems like a fight to her. I am scared, I don’t want to settle down with someone that will be violating me. I am a very peaceful person. I don’t even know how to break up with her. I truly love her but I am scared of this hot temper.
If you didn’t want a relationship after you caught me cheating you would have left instead of this. Because I know some of you will say maybe it’s because I cheated. I am a man though, I can marry as many wives as I want if I have the money. Someone that can’t take correction and can’t listen is a very big red flag for me. So I met this beautiful girl, she is calm and nice. I have been having these bad thoughts lately of giving her a chance. I don’t even know what to do. Ladies, men love women that listen.
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