This story might be long, but I have to speak up to avoid depression. I met a guy on Instagram around April, and we clicked so well. Within a few days, I travelled to see him. He was in a depressed mood and explained that his girlfriend of four years had just broken up with him a few weeks ago, and he wanted me to be his new babe. I accepted because I was also not in a relationship, and I felt since we clicked so fast, it was a sign from heaven — not knowing this guy is a devil. We started dating, and fast forward to two weeks later, things changed. We started fighting almost every day. It was a long-distance relationship, but I made sure I went to see him every two weeks. The moment I got to his place, we’d smile, gist, and have s€x by night, then by the next day I’d start irritating him. He would find something to complain about, and I would start apologizing for nothing. Not just that, he would get so pissed that he’d tell me to leave his house the next day, but while I tried packing, he would later stop me. I forgot to add that he smokes. He was the opposite of my ex.
Instead of him apologizing, he would rather manipulate me and, after fights, just call or text as if he did nothing wrong. I also forgot to add that he compares me to his ex whenever we fight and says foul words to me. He’s always seeing me as a cheat even though he has never caught me. Whenever I break up, he apologizes and acts right for two days, then starts being a narcissist again. Recently, I broke up with him because he accused me of sleeping with my friend that I’ve been close to for seven years or more. I was pained and broke up, only for me to be called by his friends that he was behaving mentally unstable after a few days of not talking to him. I thought it was one of those guy tricks until I was told his sister came from the north to pick him up. Now, I haven’t had a good sleep since a week ago when he got to the north because it’s either he’s fighting me, insulting me, or looking for ways to cause issues. I’m already running mad. I can’t sleep. He tells us to break up, and I agree, only for him to call and start insulting or manipulating me. He never believes he’s wrong.
If I block him, I don’t know how he ends up calling me, or how I always end up calling him. It’s just like I’ve brought trouble into my life. I really want to leave this bondage of a relationship where I wouldn’t care anymore. This guy said he was sick, but I saw streaks of Igbo. Does he think I’m a fool? He said he’s sick but went to a hotel and told me he went there to charge because there was no light, like what the hell? I know I’m not perfect, but ever since I’ve been dating this goat, I always make sure not to do things that will make me at fault, but this one just doesn’t care. Abi love no just dey for me ni?
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