Hello Rantz family, I need help to make a decision. I’ll go straight to the point. I have been dating my present boyfriend for the past seven years; this year makes it seven years, but he hasn’t done anything for me. Instead, he went to marry a Muslim girl; that’s a story for another day. My issue now is I am tired of waiting for him. I am the first child of my parents, an ADA. My parents are already pressuring me about marriage, mind you, I’ll be 25 this year. Now I have two potential people that I know if I give attention to, they will do something in less than six months. But here’s the issue now. One is a young man who is an aspiring fashion designer. He’s so talented, and I know his future will be bright. He’s the type of person that, if I invest in him, he will yield fruit for me. He’s very okay; if I compare him with my category of men, he would be like an 8, so he’s a pass mark. But my problem is: can I suffer with a man? I can’t, but I really like him. The other one is a young man in his late thirties. This one is due for marriage; I know it. His sister keeps calling me every day just to talk about her brother. He’s actually very okay; he’s building a hotel presently in my city. He’s been in town since January for the project. Last night, he called me and said he’s going back to the UK to rest for some time, and when he comes back, we should go see my people. I’m so confused. One: the tailor that has potential, and two: this already made man. Who should I choose? I like the already made man; we’ve been together lowkey since 2018. I also like the tailor very much. Help me, please.
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