Hi! I’m so confused that I feel so scared at this point. I have two boyfriends. I’ve been with one for more than 5 years now and we’ve had a lot of downs and few ups, but still he’s a good man. Most times I find myself withdrawing and feeling tired of the relationship because we never do anything to spice it up. He keeps having one financial issue or the other. I am working and I provide my basic needs for myself, but come on, I’m still a woman regardless. I met this other guy a few months ago and he has been so sweet, and I found myself falling in love with him. Now my problem is they are both taking me so serious and I get scared at the fact that they’re both talking about marriage. I don’t want to break anyone’s heart, but I don’t know what to do.
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