Hmm. This man and I have been dating for more than 3 years and for about 3 years, we keep having issues about him talking to other girls (nurses at his office or flirting with his burner account on Twitter). There’s always someone. I’m sick to my bones. I always forgive him when I catch him but I lose trust with each apology. I tried to put myself in his shoes and gaslight myself that at least it doesn’t get physical. This love thing is very scary. You give someone so many chances to change but they don’t, and you still stay because what if. It’s not like the other parts of the relationship work well, like he doesn’t care about our anniversary or my birthday, something always comes up. But I save up from my little salary to get him gifts and I even borrow him money regularly from my dad’s money (my dad doesn’t know about it because he pays back). We don’t even have dates, even though I don’t mind sharing the bill and I’m not even asking for serious dates. He just doesn’t rate me. Mind you, his family and friends do not know about our relationship, and he’s in his early 30s. It’s crazy. I’m annoyed and I finally called off the relationship because he did it again and lied to my face for the one-millionth time. I really wish nonchalant people would meet each other. I just want to be in love and give my all. Is that too much to ask?
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