I met this girl in my estate this February and we bonded really fast during Ramadan. I should have seen the red flags but I overlooked them and let my guard down because I hadn’t dated in a year due to heartbreak. I fell in love in a week probably because we were always together every night after breaking my fast (mostly 8 pm to around 1 am). She kissed me first, even though I wanted it so bad, I had to form hard guy. Things got intense from there, I asked her out and she told me she’s bad for me, but I didn’t care and we started dating. Only for me to discover she’s still involved with two of her exes that she told me were no longer together. One is married and the other is a boxer who later came into my DM, telling me I should leave the babe. I told her I can’t do this with her, it’s a lot to take in, but she’s insisting she loves me a lot and she’s stopped with them. But 2 weeks before Sallah, she went to spend the weekend with one of the exes, and she told me nothing happened. She started tagging my complaints as nagging. She told me I don’t like peace, that she’s showing me she’s handling things with them, but still keeping in touch with them. I stopped picking her calls, and last night she texted me that she’d stop calling me and she’d understand my message eventually. I’m so loyal to this girl, I literally ignore hotter girls for her but still got played by the one my heart chose. Please, is choosing peace (even though I’m hurting badly) over continuous hurt bad?
