I have always heard some girls are bad luck, which I believed was not real until it got to me, and I understood it’s true. I met this girl in 2021 because I was single then, so we started dating. After 4 months, everything was good. I had an ongoing project, plus a 3-bed apartment and a car before she came in. After 2 months, I lost my job, and my savings were gone. I began to sell my property until I had one left. I’m not a spiritual person; I don’t even believe in one. I don’t go to church, so I began to attend weekly service beside my house. The pastor told me a vision, which in my mind I was like, “Una don start.” He told me I should let the girl go, but I never listened. This is someone I was already planning my life with. Meanwhile, I still ignored the red flag because since I lost my job, she started acting weird too. I couldn’t meet up with her needs—always one fight to another. Well, I stopped going to the church because of that message the pastor told me. I told a friend of mine everything, and he suggested he would take me to his alfa. We went, and the man said the same thing. I got home weak and frustrated.
A week later, another alfa said the same thing, and the man said she won’t stay if things keep like this, and at first, I should stop having sex with her. It was hard; I didn’t have another girl, so for the sake of my life, I did. Since she had already misbehaved and never listened to me anymore, I thought she was ready to lose me as well. So I started what the last alfa told me, and I can say now my company called me back last year with other benefits. I got a new car, and life is good.
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