Hello rant. I’m a lady. I met my bf through a friend of mine on WhatsApp. I told him I’m single, so we talked, and he said he has a brother single too. We talked like it’s a joke, and he connected us both together. We started talking, and we really vibed a lot like we had met for years. He first paid me a visit at my house when he was in my state for a program. We kissed and kissed, and he left. Weeks later, I paid him a visit to Ibadan, and we really vibed so much. I planned using 3 days, but I ended up using more because he was loving, caring, and fun to be with. We started dating officially, and I was so obsessed with him, I know, because I’m a lover girl. But he never told me he loved me whenever I said I love him. I complained, but no changes, so I thought it was his own way, but he was caring and all. Fast forward to May 12th, I paid him a visit, and he stepped out, and I was playing a game on his phone. He left the phone with me and stepped out. I was playing the game, I don’t know, I just got to check his WhatsApp. I even thought it was locked, but it wasn’t. I saw a pinned chat which caught my attention. I read and read, and believe me, my man is cheating on me.
Not only that, he was dating the lady before me. I felt used and terrified. I cried and cried because I felt hurt, because I chose him out of many options, and I asked him to be honest. I asked times without number if he had someone, and he said no. I cried all day. He came back and saw me crying; he asked, and I later spoke up. He apologized and said he’s sorry, but he’s dating the two of us. Out of anger, I had already taken the lady’s number, and I messaged her. I shouldn’t have done that. Now the girl has been disturbing me to talk because I hinted to her it’s about her bf. But when he apologized, I felt it’s not necessary to talk or tell the lady anything again, but she keeps disturbing me. I’m still at his place, so I lied to her that I’m on a business trip, that I’m very busy, and that I will tell her everything on Sunday when I’m in my space. Rantz, please help me, I’m confused. What should I do? I love this man, but I don’t know if it’s worth fighting for, and I see he’s in the other girl’s DM saying “I love you” and all. Should I still tell the lady what happened, and should I stay with my man, or what should I do, please? I will be in the comments section.
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