I am 26 years old, and I’m struggling to understand why I’ve had similar experiences in my relationships. Whenever I meet someone who seems interested, they suddenly ghost me or change their attitude after we become intimate. This happens even if I try to take things slow and delay physical intimacy. It’s as if they’re only interested in one thing. I’ve noticed this pattern since my first relationship, which was with someone I’d been dating for years. He started showing a different side after we became physical, leaving me heartbroken. I’m starting to wonder if there’s a pattern here that I’m not seeing. I’m tired of experiencing the same pattern in my relationships. I don’t want to have multiple relationships or accumulate a lot of partners. I’m exhausted and wondering if I’m overthinking things. Is this a normal experience, or is something unique about my situation? Am I too young or inexperienced to sustain a relationship?
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