My relationship has been draining me for months now. I met this girl at a bank in 2021, I thought she was the best. We started dating after 4 months, and after all, we became serious because I already saw her in my future. After some months, I lost my job. I couldn’t spend on her like before again, but she didn’t really bother me much since she knew I lost my job. I noticed she started keeping male friends. I told her I don’t want it; she never listened and was so defensive about it. Fight over fight always, but when I had a job, this didn’t happen. Even if we fought, it didn’t take a day before we settled. Now she sees me like a lion; every word sounds like an attack to her. Communication reduced and all. I still kept questioning and putting effort, but nothing worked. I got drained, and I let her go for my peace. Now she’s saying it’s all my fault. I’m doing well for myself now, and lesson learnt: never put one yam on fire, put 2-3.
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