Hello Rantz fam, I actually need advice if I should continue or just end things for my sanity. So I met this lady through my friend who happens to be her friend also, last year October, and things were going fine with us. During this time, I bought my second car and was so happy, life was going smoothly for me, so she’s happy. I asked her if she’s in a relationship and she said no. Later on, I found out that there’s this guy she was dating but she ended things with him. But the guy keeps coming back to her (based on what she told me). Even there was a time the guy caught me in her house and wanted to fight me, although I was in my car and he didn’t gain entry as I reversed my car and drove home. So later this year, around May, her long-time ex came to Nigeria from the UK and surprisingly came to a wedding we both attended. I could observe that my girlfriend wanted to talk to him so bad but she wasn’t free and all that. I went outside the party to speak with my girlfriend’s mom and let her know what’s going on. She said I should calm down, that the guy is just here for the meantime and he will go back soon.
I was very crazy that moment and I met this guy talking to my girlfriend outside the party and he tried to handshake me, which I denied. Fast forward to when we were about to go home, I was having a conversation with my girlfriend in an angry tone and her friend was yelling and shouting. Rantz fam, mind you, this UK guy is a family friend—brother to my girlfriend’s friend—and I thought she knew about the guy coming to Nigeria. Although he’s gone back to the UK, but before he went back, he tried to beg my girlfriend to date him back because what happened at the wedding was really tough as I was very angry and my girlfriend and I had a serious fight. I’m a Muslim and she’s a Christian, and her dad said he doesn’t want her to marry a Muslim. So I went to meet their church pastor and explained how my relationship is going to an end, and the pastor called her parents but her dad kept saying he doesn’t want her to marry a Muslim. I’m so confused because I love her so much. It’s been two months since I’ve had sex with my girlfriend. She claims her pastor has not approved her to move on with me. I’m so confused. Should I move on or stay?
Also read: I Went Back To My Ex And I’m Kind Of Regretting It (Part 2)