As a woman that stayed, please don’t stay. It’s 15% out of 100 that gets to change eventually, the rest remains the same. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years now, and I must say even though I love him, it has been the worst 5 years of my life. I never knew you could love someone yet hate so dearly. Man is a chronic womanizer. Every place he gets himself, he has a woman, and eventually if those girls find out about me, he tells hideous lies about me that are very unbelievable. Because of him, I’ve had lots of girls hate me for no reason, and what upsets me more is none of them are ever in or above my standards. Every one of them is just classless. Sometimes I get confronted, and sometimes I do the confronting. During the early years, I was as stupid as trying to warn some girls who he was still trying to get to stay away and not believe him because he’s nothing but a liar, but none of them ever listened. They came, saw, and experienced the shege for themselves. Nothing is ever enough for him. He is obsessed with getting attention from plenty people.
Lures girls into believing he loves and wants a relationship, and when he finally gets them, he never reciprocates back. I, for one, always found out about what he did, and we fought every single time. It was becoming so disgusting, disrespectful. Omo, it was embarrassing and everything bad and even got worse over the years. Promises to change but never does. I can’t really go into details about the kind of abominations he has committed, but Omo, just make sure you check a nigga’s background thoroughly and socials too before you give him a chance. Cause this my guy, when bored, looks for new fishes to play with. Fast forward to this year, just a few weeks back I did something that actually, for the first time, I think hurt him and he ended things with me. And for the first time in 5 years, I was willing to let him go because what I did is nothing compared to what he had done or put me through. A few days to my birthday, after advice to go and apologize, I finally accepted and apologized. We met, and I spent a few days with him just for him to ask me to leave on my birthday eve, ruining my plans.
Didn’t even post me on any platform. All this just to get to me. Now presently, he’s still acting all upset while getting down with every girl I already made him get rid of. Now there was this particular girl who actually pointed fingers on my face so much that I had to grow so much hate for her. Now he’s started talking to this girl again with the mind to use this girl and get back at me for hurting him. Now in a week’s time, he’s supposed to open and put me in his line of business so to earn money like he does. I really don’t love him like I used to because I’m already very exhausted, but at the same time, I’m not willing to lose this chance of making my own money. So guys, what do I do? Leave and lose everything or stay, get what I want, then be on my way? Remember, both leaving and staying won’t be easy.
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