I am a 27-year-old lady. Please, I need your sincere advice. Please be nice to me. My story goes like this: In 2018, I had an abortion that made me end up in the hospital. I was very young and not ready. I was based abroad and at that time I didn’t have my papers and I was also unemployed. Fast forward to 2021, I met a guy. We dated for 2 years plus. During this period, I tried everything to get pregnant but I couldn’t. We eventually broke up for some reason, not because I couldn’t get pregnant. Then I got into another relationship which lasted for about 8 months. I broke up with him because he was a nonchalant person. He was nice in his own way but I was so concerned about his nonchalant attitude so I broke up with him early this year. I met a guy who was so persistent and I asked him if he was single. He said yes, then we went on a date and we clicked. So I told him I don’t like lies, that if we must date, he should be sincere with me. Then he told me he has someone back home in Nigeria they used to talk before he met me but they are not dating.
In his words, “I’m just telling you so you won’t think I am cheating on you.” I said okay. Few months into the relationship, I found out he was going to Nigeria to get married to the same girl he said he was not dating. I was angry and broken. He apologized and we made out, but my problem now is that I am pregnant and he wants me to abort it. His excuse is that he is not ready. But I am scared because it took me 7 years after my last abortion to get pregnant again. I don’t know if I terminate the pregnancy, if I will be able to get pregnant again. Aside that, I have my papers now and I have a good job. So I don’t know if I should keep the baby and forget about it or I should terminate it. Please my Rantz family, I need your advice.
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