I’m a 21-year-old lady who’s afraid of intimacy and I’m still a virgin. It’s hard for me to differentiate between love and lust because of my physical features. I’m tired to the extent that I started taking pills and slimming herbs to burn ass fat and boobs. I’m trying to keep myself s€xually pure. I don’t do sh!t and I despise it. I can never sell my bold soul for money — NEVER! Relationships nowadays are messed up. You just meet someone and the next thing they want is sex. I tried entering a relationship last year. We were cool together but things didn’t work out between us.
He can’t let me go but I want to because I doubted him. Can I break it now or should I wait? I noticed nowadays they don’t value virginity again. Men don’t want or value it again, but I’m just trying to stick with one person, keeping myself for just one man — a loyal person — and I will do the same. I practice loyalty. Am I too old to be a virgin? I don’t make friends with guys. I set boundaries — not out of pride — but I feel what kind of relationship does a lady and a man want to have together? Kindly advise me on what to do, please.
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