In as much as I love him and wish he could be the last, I don’t think I can take this any longer. I have ignored so many of his red flags, broke some of my protocols for his sake, still he doesn’t even appreciate any of these. What’s the point of dating someone that doesn’t trust you? Imagine him making it look like I am an outcast because I told him I’m treating an infection that I got after I left his place. I didn’t even get mad at the fact that I got it after leaving his place. Some part of me still thinks he’s not seeing someone else aside from me, and the so-called infection isn’t even an STI or STD — it’s something that can be contracted from anyone through physical touch (Staphylococcus). So why should there be any issue? Why does he have to make me feel this bad? Am I wrong for telling my partner to go check himself up and get treated? He said it wasn’t my fault, that he doesn’t know what he’s looking for. Iyen emi na? Omo I have had enough. He doesn’t kuku trust me a bit, so what’s the point? Up until now, he still thinks I’m cheating on him. Meanwhile, ever since I have been with him, I haven’t had anything with any other man.
It’s not even my thing — sleeping around — which is why I feel bad when I told him about the infection, and the next thing he could say was I should check the next person I’m sleeping with. He blamed himself for having sex with me in the first place. Guyzzz, I got this shii after leaving his place. I am under an HMO. I do infection tests almost every time I notice anything, so money isn’t even the issue here. Please, do you all think I did the wrong thing by telling him to go check himself up? The doctor advised I tell him to get treated or it will keep coming back. That was why I told him.
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