I’m a first time mom and I was 3 weeks postpartum when my hubby travelled. It was hard for me but on a brighter side, it definitely gave me enough time to heal properly (not that he would disturb me). But there’s a good feeling knowing I’m going to heal well, mentally and physically. It’s been 1 year now and I’ve not had sexual intercourse, but I still feel my V.J is loose (yes, I had a tear but it healed, or I thought). After 6 weeks postpartum, I went for checkup and they confirmed my body has healed. I’ve tried Kegel exercise, I’ve gone to see a gynecologist (they confirmed that nothing is wrong with my body) and explained to me that after birth the body doesn’t go back to its original state 100%. I told myself maybe it’s all just in my head, but in reality I don’t feel satisfied at all. I don’t know if it’s the same for all moms or if I’m alone in this. Please, I would like to know if anyone has experienced or is experiencing this kind of thing. If yes, is there a solution please? I will be in the comments section. Thanks fam.
