So I have a babe. We started dating around April 2024. It started as just flings but then I decided to ask her out and ask her to be my babe, considering I had just left a relationship then. The problem is, when I met her and up till this moment, this babe doesn’t have anything doing for money. She literally depends on me for everything, as little as money for data. Practically, if I don’t give her, she won’t have. And then the annoying thing is I do for her and her mum. We live fine. I have a car, I live in a very nice apartment in a nice estate. She basically lives with me every time. I never had issues with all this then, maybe that’s because I had money. But now, with the way things are, I’m managing and my business is still on the upcoming side. This babe is hardworking, cooks mad-a$$ crazy delicious meals, s€x is crazy and adventurous. But my only issue is her not having anything to do.
When I was still buoyant then, I tried a couple of times to start something for her. She always ends up squandering the capital or not even trying to market her business. I’m honestly tired. I wake up as early as 5 a.m. to start working because I work from home. This girl sleeps till 10 a.m. It’s so annoying. Now, my rant is—I honestly like this girl, but at this point, I’m not sure I’m ready to have another mouth to feed and all. When I had money, we lived like kings, and even now, she still wants that lifestyle, making me feel guilty whenever I refuse her something. And she is one kind fine girl with mad shape, con still sabi cook and clean house, and con sabi knack. That’s what’s confusing me—if I should let her go and just focus on myself or stay with her because of the features I mentioned.
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