Hello family, I’m seeking your advice on a challenging situation. I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for six months. He’s kind, loving, faithful, and family-oriented. However, both of us are firstborns with significant family responsibilities. He takes care of his family’s financial needs, while I shoulder mine. Recently, he offered to help with my family’s expenses, but I’m hesitant. I don’t want to add to his burden. He’s not earning much; he’s also a salary earner like me. We’re both hardworking individuals, but the stress is taking a toll. We frequently argue, and I’m drained. I’m torn between my love for him and the weight of our responsibilities. I’m considering ending the relationship to focus on building our individual lives.
I’ve already spoken to him about it, but he came to my house and kept crying and begging that he will take care of everything, which I know will be too much for him to carry. One thing for sure, love isn’t enough for us right now. And I’m in so much pain; it hurts me to see him cry like a baby. I’d appreciate your honest advice. Do you think it’s wise to prioritize our personal stability before pursuing a future together? Should we continue working through our challenges or take a break? I will really appreciate your thoughts on this because it’s like I’m at a crossroads right now.
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