Guys, please help. So, I have this friend from NYSC service that I still kept in touch with. She sells hairs. I have given this babe customers from my workplace because I work in a bank. My greatest mistake was linking her with my big bro. He wanted to get hairs as an anniversary gift for his wife. They are 2 years in marriage. Initially, I told him to send me the money, that I would send him pics, but he thought I wanted to scam him. So I just sent my friend’s number to him thinking she would be professional. But I was wrong. Mogbe, this babe has ruined everything. We are Yorubas. My sis-in-law is Igbo, from Anambra precisely. Her parents were strongly against the marriage. But she and my brother were so in love they stood their ground, and eventually both families blessed the marriage. Omo, my sis-in-law fine. She is tall, curvy, beautiful, and very intelligent too. She is the type that has knowledge about everything. If you need flier, she dey; book flight, she dey; write essay, in fact everything. Na first class brain. My brother doesn’t joke with her. He gifts her regularly.
I dey even jealous their love. She is also from a wealthy home. Long story short, I started noticing some funny parole between my friend and bro. My brother is a very reserved person. He isn’t a social media person, but one day, I was on IG and I saw his page with about 58 followers. I just laughed because he hardly posts. Something just said I should check his page. He has like 7 pics since he joined IG. My friend is following him and liked all his pics. Haha, even me, his sister, I am not following. Ok o. This was since last year o. So recently, I visited her because we both stay in Lekki. She begged me to sleep over, which I did because of the Easter break—no work. She was being too suspicious, stepping out to make calls and all. I asked her, she said it is no one important. Okay na. I was already curious to check her phone. So before she went to have her bath, I asked her to open her phone because I wanted to connect to her Wi-Fi with my laptop and send a work email because my data just expired and I needed Wi-Fi too to renew. She did and went to shower. Omo, this babe has been having an affair with my bro.
In fact, na she pursue the relationship sef. From delivering hair to him for his wife to regularly checking on him o, to calling him baby, to them seeing in a hotel and credit alerts too. Hmm, they have been seeing since last year. They exchange nudes too. Imagine seeing your own brother’s dick. I am traumatized. I pretended as if nothing because I was shocked. I left the next day and visited my brother and his wife. I was so d!sgusted with him and his pretentious show of love to my sis-in-law. This babe dashes me clothes, shoes, even wigs too, even when she has a younger sis, but she loves my company and doesn’t joke with me. I was forced to tell her. She didn’t believe it until I got a message from her that she checked his phone and it is true. She was crying over the phone. Apparently, she didn’t inform my brother, she just lock up. Every day, I call my parents to know if my brother has called to complain of anything, but nothing. I even thought she must have forgiven my brother until my brother sent a VN that she has packed and left to her family house in Festac.
She finally confronted him and said she is done with the marriage. Jesu, my parents, uncle, everyone is begging she and her family. They said they stand behind their daughter’s decision. In fact, her elder sisters are now taking her out to clubs, weddings to have fun. I view their last born’s story on Snapchat. Omo, babe is living like a single woman. I will screenshot record and send to my brother. She is happy, and my brother is so sad and in pains. In fact, he has lost weight. I regret linking this id!0t girl to my brother. My bro has broken up the affair with that stoopid girl. I have blocked her everywhere, even told my friends to beware of her. Guys, you see all these vendors, fear them. If your man buys you gift from a particular vendor, check am. Dem dey knack. These vendors are no longer professional o. Dem go follow you dey do awwww, “that is my client rocking our product,” but dey do ohnnnnn for bedroom with your man. As for my friend, God will pun!$h you for this. I pray my sis-in-law forgives my brother and comes back. I regret telling her too. Do you think I did the right thing?
(Part 2)
I read through comments and saw different people bashing me for ruining my brother’s marriage because I introduced my friend to him. Some even said I was jealous of my sis-in-law. I never knew my brother would be stoopid enough to cheat, and I also never knew my friend wouldn’t be professional. I am not jealous of my sis-in-law. I just said I love how they adore each other. It’s always an “awwww” moment when they are together. I want to also apologize to the professional hair vendors for my insensitive comment. I reached out to my sis-in-law, just like you guys advised. We spoke at length, and I pleaded with her and begged her to forgive him. She said she can’t get the picture of them together out of her head. She read their chat and saw that he steadily gave my friend h**d during s€x, and she said it is the same mouth that kisses her. Omo, I feel so devastated with how I handled everything. I should have confronted my friend first, but I acted on impulse. My mom has also reached out to her, but she still insisted on staying away from him.
They both matchmade their friend who served as best man and bridesmaid at their wedding. They met at their wedding party some weeks ago. My brother said he was completely ignored despite trying to speak to her privately. He said she gave him a look of disgust that he will never forget, and she left not long after. He also spoke with her friend to help beg her on his behalf, but she said she wouldn’t budge. At the moment, her family has reached out to mine to arrange a return of the bride price. They have sent a driver to pick the Range Rover Velar they gifted their daughter on their wedding day but told my brother to keep all home appliances they donated in furnishing their home. I still feel it’s her family pushing her to do this. Her mother and sisters have taken it upon themselves to make sure there isn’t any reconciliation. They plan to send her off abroad to go study and start afresh. Please, guys, advise me on how best for her to meet my brother and hear him out.
I believe their love would be rekindled if only she agrees to see my brother, even if it’s for 10 minutes. I am planning to book a reservation at a restaurant for both of us to meet, but my brother will show in my place. But I am scared she will catch on; that babe is very intelligent. Please drop suggestions, abeg.
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