I’m typing this still confused about what to do. My girlfriend of about 1 year and a few months has caused me a lot of emotional damage within this period. I went broke for a while, but when I had money, I always made sure I provided for whatever she needed. Due to me not being able to provide for a while, she insults me and says all sorts of harsh, depressing words at me. Later on, she caught me having conversations with a friend of hers on Snapchat. Initially, I was trying to ask her friend out since it seemed our relationship wasn’t working out, and I needed to move on. We went back and forth about it and later settled (I went for her friend because she was the one I first liked, but circumstances made it not work out back then). We were still in the talking stage recently when my girlfriend found out about our texts, so nothing happened intimately. But in every argument or disagreement we have, she keeps bringing it up, calling me a cheat and wayward, which gradually made the remaining love I had for her fall off, and I couldn’t see us growing anymore. Also, she claims to be the cleanest girl, saying I can ask around,
and no one has had anything intimate with her except her ex, even swearing with the holy book, which I indeed believed because I never had any reasons to doubt her. Then, of recent, I was in a gathering when some guys started the discussion about how he had s£x with a certain girl. She even requested alcohol and was asking to try out different styles and positions with the same guys, mentioning 2 other guys that also had something intimate with her while we are still in our relationship. All for me to find out at the end of the day, it’s my girlfriend (the guy mentioned her name, the exact work she does, her Instagram page name, and also her Snapchat handle). I was so shocked I had to record the person’s audio. I was so mad, but I couldn’t confront the guy because that would have been the dumbest thing to do. Now I’m wondering if I should open up to her about all I found out or just keep quiet because, as of right now, I know about it all, but we still keep having s€x frequently after I found out. The love isn’t just there anymore from my end. Should I open up to her about it, or should I stay mute and keep her as payback for betraying my trust and hurting me more?
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