My relationship of 4 years ended this month. My girlfriend, every time we had conflict or little argument, would just go and break up with me, even over the slightest things. But even if she breaks up, she always comes back and apologizes to me. In the beginning of the relationship, first 5 months, I caught her cheating. Apparently, she was double dating. The guy was there and I came in, and she was sending nudes to this guy, until the guy left her and went back to his ex. I caught her and then I forgave and continued the relationship. Fast forward one year later, we always have these normal little arguments that actually hold no water, and then she breaks up. But unlike me, I tend to leave the situation when it gets tense and come back to talk, just to avoid things getting heated. But she always breaks up and then comes back to apologize. Last year, we had an argument about food. She said she was adding weight and all that. At this time, we were in different states, and she said she wanted to eat burger.
I was like, “Can you cut down on all these junks when you know you are adding weight?” She started fuming and blocked me on all platforms. It happened so quick. Funny enough, she had once logged in her TikTok on my phone, so it was on TikTok I discovered she had broken up with me and blocked me, because she sent a message to her friend telling her she is done with me. Wow. What’s even crazier, she messaged the guy I caught her sending nudes to one year ago and professed a relationship. The guy even asked her about her boyfriend and she said she had broken up 3 months ago. Wow. After I saw this, what did I do? I hooked up with one of my smallies. I was heartbroken too, and we had s€x. Then my girlfriend came back 6 days later, apologized and we got back together. But six months later, she discovered I had s€x with a girl, but since then she keeps on talking about how I slept with someone else. I’m like, you broke up with me for a foolish reason, lowered your pride as a woman to profess a relationship to another man the same day, and you are blaming me?
Since then, the relationship became shaky, because she always pointed out what I did and never accepted the fact that her actions also have consequences. We broke up on the 31st after I couldn’t deal with it anymore. This was someone I always spent an average of N200k on every month. I even spent over N700k on her birthday. I’m not really worried about that because I earn up to over 3 million a month. She has begged and begged we come back, but I have zeroed my mind and I’m not going back. Am I wrong?
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