I met my boyfriend mid-August of 2023. We were secondary school mates. We started talking and vibing and I thought he would ask me out, but then his brother died that same year, 10 days before my birthday. So I decided to let it be for a while. We kept talking and making up because he wouldn’t ask me out, till he eventually asked me out in September last year. Now, my problem is that I feel he doesn’t take us seriously because unlike other couples, we don’t ever acknowledge our anniversary, he doesn’t give me money or gifts. I mean, I don’t want anything expensive, but the thought really counts. Didn’t get me anything for my birthday. I know y’all would say, “Have I gotten him anything?”
But the truth is I don’t have money; I just left school. Not like I can’t get him anything, but I would really like him to make the first move, then I can follow. I’m beginning to think he’s stingy because he’s a tech guy. He makes good money at least. We have sex sometimes and the sex is good, but sometimes I just feel like the relationship is about communication and sex. We barely go on dates too. I just feel sad about it and I don’t know if I should talk to him about it or if it’s enough to break up. Please advise me.
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