I’m in my late twenties and have been with my boyfriend for a while. I love him so much that since I’ve known him, I haven’t given any other guy a chance—I’ve been completely faithful. On the other hand, he talks to so many girls. I didn’t know this before because I trusted him completely. Even when I noticed him chatting with other girls, I believed him when he said they were the ones making advances. One morning, I went to his house around 7:00 am and caught him with another woman. He told me she had just come to greet him and was about to leave. But when I arrived, I had been knocking on the door for over five minutes before he opened it, and he was only wearing a towel. At first, I thought he had just been in the bathroom, but when I opened the visitor’s toilet, I found a girl hiding there. I was so mad that day, but he begged me, claiming nothing happened, and I forgave him.
Still, I couldn’t trust him completely after that. Fast forward to two weeks ago, I found out his phone password and decided to check it while he was asleep. I discovered he has been chatting with multiple girls, asking them out, and even inviting them to his house. The same girl I caught with him was still coming over. To make it worse, he tells other girls he’s single. I didn’t confront him immediately and kept it to myself until this morning when I finally brought it up. Instead of addressing his actions, he got upset and asked why I “hacked” his phone, turning the situation around on me. So, my question is, was I wrong to go through his phone without his consent?
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