I’ve been dating this lady for about a year now. Normally, I prayed a little when we started dating, and I saw nothing bad about her. But lately, my dad has called about three times, saying he had a dream, and the interpretation was that there’s a lady around me who might be overturning my efforts and blessings. I denied having any such lady—I wasn’t even thinking about my girlfriend then. Fast forward to four days ago, my dad called again, saying they went for a prayer meeting somewhere, and a vision came out about me. It was about this same lady. I just told him I’ll be careful; nothing will happen. The second day, my mum called me and repeated the same thing because they went to the place together. I told my mum about her, anyway. So, yesterday, my dad called again, but this time, I told him the truth. He asked for her name and her mum’s name, which I gave him, and he said he would work on it. About an hour later, he forwarded a voice note to me on WhatsApp.
It was from the woman he consulted, and the woman’s response was that this lady won’t marry me, that she’s just lying to me, and she will be draining me financially. She said we will eventually break up, but things might have gone worse for me by then. My dad consulted another person, and they told him that this girl is an “Elegbe Omo,” so I should break up with her. The thing is, even before this time, I’ve been told by two different people that the lady I’ll marry is a daughter of a very influential person, and I firmly believe that to this day. But I can’t stay without dating while waiting for that time. I’m currently in a serious relationship with this lady I’m talking about, though it has never crossed my mind that I’ll marry her. I think the same applies to her because we’re still young. I’m 23, she’s 20, and we are both in university. They’re telling me to break up with this girl, but I don’t want to, and please try to understand me.
This girl is loyal to an extent, if I won’t lie, and aside from that, she has really helped me a lot emotionally in the past few months. If not for her, I would have been in depression by now. This girl loves me a lot, and I love her too. Even this girl has stopped talking to most of her friends, both male and female, just because of our relationship. And come to think of it, if I break up with her, I’ll still have to date another lady. What if that relationship turns out to be worse? There’s also this time I went somewhere, and an Alfa told me that I should hold this girl tight because she’s a good girl. I never inquired about her; he just said it out of nowhere. I don’t want to break up with her for now. The only thing I’m really worried about is that they said I won’t be able to grow financially if I’m dating her. Please, I need mature advice. What should I do?
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