I started dating this guy, Mr. O, while in the process of breaking up with my ex. We never had sex. I entered another relationship, but I still had Mr. O in my life. I didn’t have sex with him, yet he kept on doing boyfriend duties for me. In July 2023, we had an event, and we had our first sex. That’s when I realized he cannot satisfy me—when I tell you my middle finger is longer than his thing, trust me, I’m not bluffing. At first, I thought I didn’t like him because he wasn’t physically my type—he’s very short and too fat. After that, I didn’t visit him again. The only thing God blessed Mr. O with is money. He’s very rich. I thought I could keep him until I was ready to settle down,
but now I realize I can’t cope with our sex life because this guy literally makes love to my thighs whenever we have sex. I thought that if I visited him more often, I’d be able to develop feelings for him, but I was wrong. This guy wasted money on my travel, my apartment, and my working studio. He even got me the latest phone. Anytime I visit him, it feels like I’m pun!$hing myself, but at the same time, I don’t want to do him wrong. The last time we tried to make love, I had to tell him I wasn’t enjoying it. He felt bad and went to the hospital immediately, but I know the hospital can’t fix that. In my life, I’ve only had two exes, and I was really satisfied with them. It was just our differences that made us break up.
My intention for Mr. O at first was just to collect his money, but he seems to be better than my exes in every way except s£x. He has supported my family functions and has done so much for me. Breaking up with him just like that doesn’t feel right, but at the same time, I don’t want to marry out of pity. We broke up last month, and his mom had to call to settle things. Now his mom is a bone I can’t swallow or vomit because there’s no tangible reason for us to break up. I’m scared of losing a good man, but I’m also scared of cheating in marriage if I eventually get married to Mr. O.
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