I’m a single mother of 1, Her dad and I broke up because of our genotype! My baby is just 2, and I’m 34years old. I met a new guy this year june, he’s a flight dispatcher and this is my 2nd relationship ever, we are almost of the same age. He asked that I be his girlfriend and yes, I agreed…because honestly, I need someone to call my man too. It’s been almost 2 years since I left my baby daddy and I have not given relationship another chance. Not because people are not coming I just don’t see myself into relationship or commitment then, and now, I feel like I am truly ready for one. This guy shows me love and respects me alot too. We vibe and get along with each other very well. He loves my daughter and my daughter calls him Daddy already when they speak on phone.
I have never for once asked of a dime from him before, cos no be him kobalize me and I feel money shouldn’t be everything. Not like he’s very well to do, but at least he’s trying to be okay for himself. He’s still paying some debts in his working place (He sent his ex abroad, and on getting there, mama said he should move on without her, that’s she’s gotten someone else) So, now he started his own process of traveling out too and it’s been draining for him like he always say. My problem now is, as much as we talk for almost 4-5 times a day, it’s been 3 months now and we still haven’t seen each other. When I nag and complain, he’d beg it’s his work and all. Normal normal, if na some other guys, you’d have been hearing move your camera down, take it up a bit and all…lol… but he hasn’t for once talked about that.
We talk about our sexual lives too and all, but we are yet to see ourselves since June. He said he loves how my daughter calls him daddy and that he loves that she’s still 2 that this would make her see him as her biological father (I don’t have problem with that). He includes me with almost all his daily routines and shared live location with me always as well! Why we haven’t seen is what I really don’t understand even though he’s always saying it is work work work I am tired of video call. I am tired of hearing his cousin calling me our wife over the phone, I am tired of the I love you promises and want you and your daughter he keeps saying. Now, baba want to travel and inshallah, I hope he gets good news before this year runs out. He was saying we would see in September, that he’d be going on work leave.
The main reason now is that he wants me to get pregnant while he travels and then few months after, my child and I, with the unborn one will go join him before my EDD. I already said I wasn’t going to succumb to it, but he keeps assuring me he’s real and really wants us. Maa no go get belle finish, make my own no start to dey meet me o. I no dey desperate to born another pikin, I no dey desperate to marry. Only this one baby wey dey my hand if not for hardwork and God’s grace ehn! My mind no dey gree touch ground o. Abeg my online sisters and brothers. Make una advice me. Should I get pregnant for him or I should just wait till that few months he promised to work us there and when I get there make I carry belle wey I wan carry so. Cos, I no fit do court wedding dey carry belle up and down like another thing o. Maa no go kpeme before my time o. Bikonu!
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