There is this particular guy who has always liked me from day one of our school days, though I didn’t really give him any attention until we finished because I wasn’t attracted to him, and I was still a virgin. Fast forward to this year, he has always been asking me out on a date and always in my DMs, telling me he has been crushing on me from day one. Even until now, I haven’t given him an answer, but he asked me to please go out on a date with him. I agreed one time, and the plans were already in place, only for him to tell me it was overnight, and I said I can’t sleep over because I had a boyfriend at that time. He disagreed, and we ended up not going on the date.
He messaged me after some time again to ask me out on a date, and this time around, I agreed because I was single and needed to mingle. We went on the date, everything was nice… He was a gentleman to me, and I enjoyed myself. When we got back to the hotel, we had sex, and boy, he does fuck good. The next day, we both went back to our respective houses, but I think I’m beginning to have a problem. I can’t take him out of my head; I imagine him fucking me every time, and I can’t just take the image of us having sex out of my mind. He isn’t saying anything about it, and I’m scared he might think I’m cheap because of the sex on the first date.
I also want to ask if I should wait till he asks me out to be his girlfriend. I overthink a lot, and I’ve just been thinking of different scenarios, like maybe he just took me out on a date to have sex with me because he has been pursuing me for a long time, or maybe it is a bet with his friends because I know his friends too. I don’t know what to think or do, and he isn’t helping either. Please, what should I do?
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