There is this guy I’m dating at the moment. Our relationship is now three years, and I have been loyal to him to the extent that if someone texts me, I wouldn’t reply because he’s a very jealous guy. He doesn’t want me to get friends or even be close to anyone. Though we do have some misunderstandings, sometimes he will nag at me and call me names, so since then, I’ve done myself a favor by starting to sell something online, and God has always come through for me. What I noticed about him since last week is that he just doesn’t talk to me.
There’s no conversation, and we are living together—except when he’s horny, that’s when he comes to me. Please, don’t judge me; he asked me to live with him when I had family issues. He started acting weird. I’ve been enduring it. Not only do I see him texting on TikTok, chatting with random girls, but he doesn’t even know I saw him. I didn’t say anything to him or ask about it, I just kept mute because I was avoiding any misunderstanding. Till that night when he said he’s not trusting me again, I kept mute, and I was like, “he’s still acting loyal whereas he doesn’t know I saw everything he’s doing.”
So I just said some words like, “why won’t you trust me? I am not a dog!” Next thing, he told me that I should be doing mine, and he will be doing his own also. I was like, “is this guy joking?” The next thing I hear is, “anything you see, you surely see am, that he doesn’t even care.” He said if I am fed up and we will surely separate one day. This is from a guy I’ve been loyal to for three years, lol. Anyway, I’ve been thinking maybe I should go and rent an apartment. Maybe I should give myself respect, or what can I do, please?
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