I’m sad, devastated, and depressed 😔. If there’s another word for it, please let me know because I want to use it. How can I fall out of love with someone I love so much? I met this guy last year, October 2023. At first, we were cool; everything was sweet and all that. Later, everything went south. The whole thing didn’t work. I felt or thought he was everywhere. I don’t know if I was wrong. He claimed he loved me, but I wasn’t feeling it. Now the problem is, my feelings haven’t changed to this day, and I know he doesn’t like me as much as he used to—or maybe he didn’t like me at all. We’re cool today, and tomorrow, we’re not talking. It’s been like that since the beginning of this year. I just want to be free from this guy 🥹🥹. The way men can easily move on or act unbothered is alarming.
Like, bro, are you not as hurt as I am? Each day you post and we’re not talking… Omo, I cried myself to sleep last night. I woke up around 4 a.m., went through WhatsApp statuses, scrolled down to my mute list, and viewed his status. Omo, bro went out 🥹🥹. So, you’re so comfortable after leading me on? I cried myself to sleep again. Woke up around 8 this morning and started crying again. Please, be easy with your words or comments. Depression is eating me up. I know people will say, “Na man dey do you?” Let’s be honest—most of us are weak when it comes to love. So please, don’t crucify me 🥹🥹. Try to understand my pain. I’m typing this with tears in my eyes. If only I had known, I wouldn’t have gone to the place where I met this guy 🤦♀️. I regret ever going there.
I even stopped going to the place we met, for like 5–6 months now, because he still goes there. But we still communicate. It’s more like I can’t let go. Depression is setting in gradually. He doesn’t even know I love him this much. Though I told him earlier that I had feelings for him, he doesn’t know I still have feelings for him to this day. I told him I’d moved on, but I can lie to him, not to myself 🥹🥹. Please, be kind with your comments. I have no one else to talk to. 🙏🙏,
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